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The point is; I was bitter about the divorce, and I used that bitterness to blame her for the marriage ending when in reality I played a significant role. Whether I believed that divorce was right or not was irrelevant because it was, in fact, the situation.
To get rid of the bitterness in my heart, I had to admit that I was bitter.I learned that no matter what I am feeling and thinking I can choose to change.In a nutshell, to get rid of my bitterness: Over time I saw that my thoughts controlled my feelings.It's a nice sense of irresponsibility." - Michael Douglas"If you are single there is always one thing you should take out with you on a Saturday night...your friends." - Sex in the City"Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves." - Carl Jung"I think, therefore I'm single." - Liz Winston"I don't need a man to rectify my existence.Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are the only one you will never lose." - Jo Courdert"I must learn to love the fool in me the one who feels too much, talks too much, takes too many chances, wins sometimes and loses often, lacks self-control, loves and hates, hurts and gets hurt, promises and breaks promises, laughs and cries." - Theodore Isaac Rubin"You can explore the universe looking for somebody who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere." - Unknown"I celebrate myself, and sing myself." - Walt Whitman"He is his own best friend, and takes delight in privacy whereas the man of no virtue or ability is his own worst enemy and is afraid of solitude." - Aristotle "To be exempt from the passions with which others are tormented, is the only pleasing solitude." - Joseph Addison"I never found a companion that was so companionable as solitude." - Henry David Thoreau"I'm single because I was born that way." - Mae West"Some people are settling down, some people are settling and some people refuse to settle for anything less than butterflies." - Sex in the City "I don't like to be labeled as lonely just because I am alone." - Delta Burke"He who knows others is wise. You are the guy who'll decide where to go." - Dr.
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The more bitterness I felt, the farther I was from the man I wanted to be. Nobody wanted to be around me and hear the same crap over and over again about poor me.
I realized that I was spending too much of my time blaming her and looking at what she had done and not enough time examining myself.
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One day I realized that I was turning many of these emotions inward instead of dealing with them head-on and working through the cards I had been dealt during this moment in my life. My bitterness was feeding my self-pity and hatred, and for a time I felt justified to feel that way.